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Toxic faith

 
 

Twenty-one beliefs of a toxic faith

Stephen Arterburn and Jack Felton use the term “Toxic Faith” to describe “…a destructive and dangerous involvement in a religion that allows the religion, not a relationship with God, to control a person’s life.” They describe this type of faith as abusive, manipulative, defective, and addictive. In their book Toxic Faith - Experiencing Healing from Painful Spiritual Abuse they identify twenty-one toxic beliefs. Click the links below for a more balanced scriptural perspective.

Toxic Belief #1: God’s love and favor depend on my behavior.

Toxic Belief #2: When tragedy strikes, true believers should have a real peace about it.

Toxic Belief #3: If I have real faith, God will heal me or someone I am praying for.

Toxic Belief #4: All ministers are men and women of God and can be trusted.

Toxic Belief #5: Material blessings are a sign of spiritual strength.

Toxic Belief #6: The more money I give to God, the more money he will give to me.

Toxic Belief #7: I can work my way to heaven.

Toxic Belief #8: Problems in my life result from some particular sin.

Toxic Belief #9: I must not stop meeting others’ needs.

Toxic Belief #10: I must always submit to authority.

Toxic Belief #11: God uses only spiritual giants.

Toxic Belief #12: Having true faith means waiting for God to help me and doing nothing until he does.

Toxic Belief #13: If it’s not in the Bible, it isn’t relevant.

Toxic Belief #14: God will find me a perfect mate.

Toxic Belief #15: Everything that happens to me is good.

Toxic Belief #16: A strong faith will protect me from problems and pain.

Toxic Belief #17: God hates sinners, is angry with me, and wants to punish me.

Toxic Belief #18: Christ was merely a great teacher.

Toxic Belief #19: God is too big to care about me.

Toxic Belief #20: More than anything else, God wants me to be happy.

Toxic Belief #21: I can become God.